Phyllis & Ralph
Our Wedding
Message From Couple
We just wanted to let everyone know that our wedding is being kept small and intimate.
*It will be for “Save The Date” addressed invites only.
*Everyone should RSVP right on our wedding website.
*RSVP by APRIL 4, 2025
*Attire for the wedding is cool and comfy!! It will be hot!! Shoes are optional!!
We understand that not everyone will be able to attend our wedding, but please know that you will be missed and that you are all very special to us.
If you have any questions please feel free to reach out to us.
Ralph (631)538-7895
Phyllis (631)786-6240
We hope to see you in Mexico!
About Us
Ralph and I have been friends for over 10 years, and we have always had a great friendship. Ralph tells people that I'm the female version of him. We are so much alike that it's scary! Weeks and months could go by, and we'd meet up like we never missed a beat. We remained friends even when one or both of us were in a relationship. We used to joke that if Ralph wasn't married by the time he was 50, we agreed we would get married. I just never thought we'd do it, but here we are—GETTING MARRIED! Ralph has always been my person. Whether it was for a venting session, a good laugh or Friday happy hour. He was always there when I needed him. Our relationship became “official” in June of this year. We are at a point in our lives where we both want the same things, so we decided why not have it all together?!! I am so blessed to be marrying my best friend, and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him.
Gift Registries
Wedding Party

Lilianna
Maid of Honor
Lilianna is my beautiful daughter. I am beyond blessed that she will be by my side on our wedding day. We love you Lili 🖤

Stephanie
Best Woman
Stephanie is Ralph’s beautiful daughter. She is our biggest fan in our relationship and always has been. We love you Stephie🩷

RoseAnn
Mother of the Bride
RoseAnn…the most caring, loving, selfless, understanding woman that I have the privilege to call my MOM. You have supported our relationship from day one and we are both so grateful for all that you do for us. We love you 💛

Michael
Usher
Michael…cousin, and the closest male figure I have since my dad passed away. I love and appreciate you for always standing by my side in life. I am honored to have you walk me down the aisle on my wedding day. We love you cuz ❤️
Itinerary
Guests Arrive
October 2nd
3:00 PM - 11:00 PM
RIU Palace Riviera Maya
Ralph & Phyllis’ Wedding Ceremony
October 4th
5:00 PM - 5:30 PM
RIU Palace Riviera Maya
On The Beach
Cocktail Hour
October 3rd
6:00 PM - 7:00 PM
Outdoor Theater
Reception
October 3rd
7:00 PM - 11:00 PM
On The Beach
Accommodations
Riviera Maya
Riu Palace Riviera Maya
Located on a beautiful beach in Playacar, the Riu Palace Riviera Maya has a stunning lobby area and beautifully landscaped grounds. With plenty of activities for guests, you can golf, snorkel, or enjoy a nightly show. There is a huge pool with a swim-up bar, or take advantage of free beach chairs and umbrellas for spending time on the sand. With exceptional service at this exceptional location, Riu Palace Riviera Maya is the best place to spend your next family vacation or honeymoon.
Travel Information
We have partnered with Destify to make booking your travel easy. Destify offers 24/7 customer support, low price guarantees, low deposits, and free perks. Please book your stay with our group to ensure easy planning and communication for all wedding events and to maximize the perks offered to our group.
LOW
DEPOSITS
0% INTEREST PAYMENT PLANS
NO
AGENCY FEES
24/7
SUPPORT
PRICE MATCHING
Make your reservation as soon as possible to guarantee your room.
All packages are all-inclusive with unlimited dining and beverages (alcoholic & non-alcoholic), activities, entertainment, taxes and fees.
Round trip ground transportation from the airport is available for purchase.
Reservations can be held for a low, non-refundable deposit of $150 per person. Final payments are due 65 days prior to your departure date. Pricing and availability are subject to change at any time. Price matching is available at the time of booking; restrictions apply. Minimum night stays can change at any time.
We do not have a room block reserved so no space is being held at the hotel. Book your stay as soon as possible to guarantee your room at the resort.
RSVP
Thank you for your RSVP! Please note room rates and availability are subject to change. Please secure a room with our group ASAP if you are planning to attend.
Who We Are
Destify is a destination wedding service provider, specializing in savings, impeccable customer care, and efficiency for the group travel industry. We take pride in our easy process and booking technology that creates the best value wedding packages for our clients. Destify was established with the core goal to make destination weddings simpler, with more of the costs upfront, all while directing the savings back to our customers. Visit us at www.destify.com
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